Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.Proverbs 11:14
Makes decisions in a timely manner, sometimes with incomplete information and under tight deadlines and pressure
Follows a logical process to make decisions
Includes the appropriate people in the decision making process
Balances desired outcomes and objectives with risks
“I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.”
– Stephen Covey
Slow to decide or to declare – overly conservative and cautious
May procrastinate, seek perfect information to build confidence and avoid risk
May be a perfectionist, needing to be right; protects strongly against criticism or failure
May be disorganized and always scrambling to meet decision deadlines
May be slow to make decisions on more complex issues – lack of clear and thorough decision making process
Does not include others in the decision making process
“Most discussions of decision making assume that only senior executives make decisions or that only senior executive’s decisions matter. This is a dangerous mistake.”
– Peter Drucker
Causes of Weakness
Dislikes conflict and thus avoids decision making
Is afraid of taking risks and thus has a hard time making difficult decisions
Does not have an organized and structured approach to making decisions
Is easily intimidated by others and their strong opinions
Need to Know
Requires an unrealistic amount and quality of information before being willing to make a decision
Has difficultly focusing on all of the complexities of a problem without getting distracted by one or two variables of the decision
Has a high need to be right, be correct, not make mistakes, and not fail
Has too much work to do to take sufficient time to work through a complex decision through to completion
“One day, Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree. “Which road do I take?” she asked. Its response was a question. “Where do you want to go?” “I don’t know,” Alice answered. “Then,” said the cat, “it doesn’t matter.”
– Lewis Carroll
Review the simple application steps below and choose 1 or 2 things you can do to spur yourself on to further growth.
PERFECTIONIST? Recognize perfectionism for what it might be—collecting more information than others do to improve confidence in making a fault-free decision. Life rarely gives us opportunities to eliminate all risk and provide us with ALL the necessary information we want. Try to decrease your need to be right all the time until you reach a more reasonable balance between thinking it through and taking action.
PROCRASTINATOR? Start earlier. Always do 10% of thinking about the decision immediately after it is assigned so you can better gauge what it is going to take to finish the rest. Divide decisions into thirds or fourths and schedule time to work on them spaced over the delivery period. Always leave more time than you think it’s going to take. Set up checkpoints for yourself along the way. Schedule early data collection and analysis. Don’t wait until the last moment. Set an internal deadline considerably before the real deadline.
SCARED? Sometimes we have to involve people in the decision making process who we are afraid of – or afraid of their different or strong opinions. Mentally rehearse for worst-case scenarios and hard to deal with people. Anticipate what the person might say and have responses prepared so as not to be caught off guard. Focus on two or three key points in conflict situations and stick to those clearly and politely. Try not to bring up everything you can think of, but instead focus on what’s most important.
OVERWHELMED? Think of a big decision as a series of smaller ones. Sometimes sufficient information does not exist to help us in making a good decision. Try making a series of smaller decisions, get instant feedback, correct the course, get a little more data, move forward a little more, until the bigger decision gets made. They don’t try to get it right the first time. They try their best educated guess now, and then correct as more information or feedback comes in.
Need a Process?
NEED A PROCESS? Start with prayer, and continue with prayer throughout any decision making process you use. Give God the opportunity to guide you or show you the way. Who are the other key people that need to be involved with this decision? Who has critical information that you will need in order to make a good decision? Together with the key decision makers in the room, define your decision by writing a decision statement. Try NOT to write the statement in a ‘yes/no’, ‘either/or’, or multiple choice form. That severely limits the options you allow yourself to consider. Make a list of all the goals and objectives of your decision. What is everything you are hoping for or hoping to achieve? What are your limitations (i.e. money, time, staff, technology, resources)? Once you have listed all of that, then brainstorm possible alternatives (choices) to consider. Use your list of objectives to help you design some creative alternatives, as well. This might include combining some of the initial alternatives you had thought of. Next, evaluate each alternative (possible choice) to see how well each alternative fulfills the objectives of the decision. For each of the 2 alternatives that seem to be the best fit, consider the risks associated with each of those alternatives. As you compare those top 2 alternatives while considering their risks, which alternative are you most comfortable choosing? Do you feel you need to also look at the risks of the 3rd best alternative? Make a prayerful choice and decide how you will minimize and remain aware of the risks going forward.